tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1135180141801689095.post2001016182440320579..comments2023-06-18T08:17:57.821-07:00Comments on Muffin Cake: Snapping Out Of A Funk.Muffin Cakehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15921638826104681263noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1135180141801689095.post-79079953219384873452011-08-24T11:43:24.720-07:002011-08-24T11:43:24.720-07:00Katie,
I think we've all been there or are th...Katie,<br /><br />I think we've all been there or are there currently. I recently had a conversation with a friend who invited me over for Christmas because Pat will be gone. I immediately felt uncomfortable and dismissed her invitation. It dawned on me that I feel uncomfortable when people do nice things or offer to help because I can't imagine why they would want to spend Christmas with me, or have me over for dinner other than because they feel like they SHOULD ask because it's the nice thing to do. Nobody really likes being around me- I'm sure of it. And when I confessed this to my friend, she told me that she just wished I could look at things from the other side, as the friend who wants to help the other friend out. Anyways, my point to this story is what you clearly already know, but are having a hard time with--- everyone else sees you in a much different way than you see yourself. Nobody sees the person you think you see on TV. I know I saw a confident, smart, and beautiful woman. <br /><br />- TiffanyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com